What’s Done is Done

Today I learned something that will change the rest of my life and help me to move further at a faster pace. I realized that when something unfortunate happens that is out of my control, even if it is my own mistake, and there is nothing that can be done to correct it, I must focus my attention and emotions on what I am going to do next... given my new situation. We cannot focus on what our mistakes or the mistakes of others have ruined or changed because these things cannot be altered. We need to focus our energy on the new situation and keep in mind that dwelling and anger serve only one purpose… to wound ourselves and the ones we love. Never work on the problem, work on the solution.